It has been one of those days when I get a feeling of ‘ain’t nobody gonna call this out’? Today we had a good discussion in Sunday School about how to learn to handle being annoyed as a loving Christian. We talked about forgiveness and to trust that God is growing us up through others. All good stuff. Which I enjoyed.
Upon second thought, I think it’s only half the equation. Why do annoy-ers seemingly get off the hook? This is wearisome to “little ones” and offensive, if I may say so. I believe that no matter of age, position or title, such persons should be confronted. God wants everyone.
That’s all. But I feel better having gotten that off my heart.
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Hi Arla,
I made the mistake of reading your post in the wee hours of the morning then formed a reply the rest of the night in my subconscious mind. =)
Good thoughts by the way and good discussion starters. I’m curious though – if I confront everyone who annoys me – won’t I soon be the “annoy- er”?
What about Jesus’ words, “Offenses will come?”
I’ve spent a few sleepless nights wondering how that “annoying” person can sleep at night. The way “they” speak, react, do things, etc. is so foreign to me and my way of doing things – it really is disturbing. Add conversations in my head where I always say the correct words and make my position clear (no stuttering or stammering) I could fill a book with those sleepless nights and imaginary conversations.
We all do this at some point. It’s been a few years now since I read these books. They were very helpful for me and I’ve been sleeping lots better.
It’s Not About Me by Max Lacado
Inside Out by Larry Crabb
Maybe it’s time for me to reread them 🤔 since now it appears I’m confronting you! 🤣 Love – Dawn
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Yes, I can see how this can become a vicious cycle. Honestly, I suppose annoyance is a weak word for it. If I’m only annoyed it’s my problem. True. I’m concerned when, especially younger people, have to bear with inconsistencies from those whom they are supposed to be submissive and learning.
Sorry, that you lost sleep over my little rant. I really am.
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No problem! It’s good to put my thinking cap on. Reality is startling for young people – I know. Actually for any of us …
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I think you are onto something.
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That was Luci. I’m catching up on your posts and having trouble logging in.
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